Eventually, I went off to Binghamton and living away granted me the autonomy to pick up where I left off, which explains why my collection grew again with titles dating back from 1990 to 1993. It trailed off again when I graduated college. I was coming out of the closet, coming to terms with my identity, all while trying to figure out the complications of dating, a rite of passage for which the teenage years are usually reserved. On top of this, the pressure to find steady work became my foremost priorities. Still, I always returned to take a peek and see what was going on, buying an issue here and there to read what my favorite heroes were doing.
Over time, I carefully bagged my collection away in the basement, gathering dust, waiting to get forgotten. So maybe I was ready to let go. And then I knew I was ready to let go when I re-read the story line from one of my first and favorite series, Batman and The Outsiders #1. I found it unreadable. It seemed flat and unrealistic. I didn't have the fantasy and suspension of disbelief filter as I once had, and worst of all, the sour realization flashed before me that comic books were nothing but socially acceptable soap operas for boys.
But even if there was no rush of childhood nostalgia, that doesn't mean I still can't honor what comic books meant to me. For a kid who held his secrets hard in his heart, I loved the fantasy and escape they provided. Comic books made me fall in love with the written word. I consumed vocabulary words. So what if I will never have the occasion to use words like polyglot, higgledy-piggledy or quidnunc in a sentence?
While I was rummaging through my collection, getting it ready for donation, what really got me was the particular damp and musty smell of old yellowing paper, the thin, cheap paper that most comics were printed on before the 1990s. The scent shot me back to an image of that hideous blood-red velvet sofa my family seemed to own forever, and must have fallen out of a pimp's truck. I remember storing my cherished copy of Alpha Flight #1 underneath the cushions, hoping it would remain flat and safe.
And I also remember begging my mom for 60 cents so I could buy the latest copy of Amazing Spiderman #252, the issue that debuted his new black costume.